6 home decor lessons we learned this year from a pro
At the end of every year, I look back on the columns I’ve written and the roads we’ve traveled on the way to better living, and pull out my favorite lessons, one from every month. Here’s what topped the first six months of 2019.
In January: A little bird reminded me that great design starts with a spark. I was decorating a kid’s guest room for the youngest members of the family, an upstairs room with an A-frame ceiling, and wanted the room to feel enchanted. So when I came across an arched wooden headboard with a hand-carved bird perched on the edge, the room’s design took flight. The bird looked as if it had just flown in the window to add a touch of whimsy. I ordered two headboards, one for each twin bed, and the room became the stuff of dreams.
Lesson: If you don’t have that spark, wait for the inspiration — then decorate.
In February: During Valentine’s week, I wrote about the secret that keeps love alive at home. Love is why we cook, clean and decorate. Sure, your home should look good, but more important, it should make you feel better than anywhere else. And that has to do with what happens inside.
Lesson: Practice the 52 Rule every day. Many couples see their roles as 50/50 partnerships. When Partner A gets annoyed, he or she pulls back to 48 percent, and waits for Partner B to lean in. This bugs Partner B, who also starts giving only 48. The 4 percent gap is where tension and resentment live. But when both partners give 52 percent — when they both step up, when she empties the dishwasher though it’s his turn, when he makes the bed though she usually does, when she knows he has a jammed day and packs his favorite lunch — they create not a gap but a grace zone where grudges can’t live.
In March: I discovered what our need to cling to stuff and archeology have in common. I came across a book, “Entangled: An Archaeology of the Relationships Between Humans and Things” by Stanford professor Ian Hodder. “A dependency on objects, which has been going on for some 2.5 million years, lies at the heart of humanity,” he told me. “The first items we attached to were tools that helped us build houses or get food.”
Just as I was concluding that we’re all pretty pathetic, Hodder pointed out the upside: Our entanglement with stuff is the basis of our survival and success.
Lesson: It’s not a license to hoard, but we can feel less guilty about our attachment to material things: It’s only human.
In April: I found that that my blended, crazy-quilt family is not only common, it’s the norm. In America, the intact, biologically bonded, mother-father-and-child family is not the rule. The recoupled family is, said Stepfamily Foundation founder Jeannette Lofas: Some 60 percent of families live in some form of divorced or stepfamily relationship in which one or both partners have children from a prior marriage.
Lesson: Home design plays a role in that new normal. Kids need to know, where do I fit in? How you decorate shows kids — whether they live with you full time, part time or just visit — how and where they fit in.
In May: I discovered that the best flower shop might just be your own backyard. I read Clare Nolan’s book, “In Bloom: Growing, Harvesting, and Arranging Homegrown Flowers All Year Round,” and called her. “When you buy flowers at the store, the flowers are all at the same stage,” Nolan said. “With garden flowers, you can mix buds with open blossoms and replicate what is happening in nature. Flowers from the yard often have a little crazy wiggle, or a bug-nibbled leaf, which adds a bit of magic.”
Lesson: Your backyard flowers are cheaper, more convenient, more personal, and less perfect — in a good way. Mix buds with full blooms, fronds, grasses and branches.
In June: a drawing my brother made of the Happier Yellow House led me to discover what every home should have. Stationery consultant Ellen Prague told me every house needs a stationery wardrobe, a set of personalized letterhead and note cards. We used the house drawing as a starting point.6 home decor lessons we learned this year from a pro
Lesson: “Your home’s stationery is your connection to society,” Prague said, “your home’s handshake to the world.” More than that, the art of writing and sending handwritten correspondence is part of gracious living.
Join me next week for a round-up of lessons from 2019’s second half.
State of the Movie Franchises: 5 Lessons Hollywood Learned in 2019
Each movie must exist on its own, but 2019 did yield some trends
At the start of 2019, there was only one guarantee when it came to the year’s batch of franchise movies: Disney was going to clean up. While that has certainly come true, the rest of Hollywood trotted out a mix of sequels and potential franchise launchers with decidedly mixed results.
On one hand, Warner Bros.’ plan to give the Joker his own mid-budget movie paid off beyond all expectations; “Joker” became the first superhero Golden Lion winner at the Venice Film Festival and the first R-rated billion-dollar hit. “Jumanji: The Next Level” is proving to be a strong Christmas alternative to “Star Wars,” and “John Wick: Chapter 3” gave Lionsgate its biggest hit since “La La Land.”
On the other, audiences were not at all interested in seeing Arnold Schwarzenegger and Linda Hamilton reunite for another “Terminator” movie. Combined with the poor results from “The Shining” sequel “Doctor Sleep” and “Charlie’s Angels,” “Terminator: Dark Fate” caused a chain reaction that led the entire November box office to fall below projections. “Hellboy” and “Men in Black: International” also stood as examples of failed attempts to bring a dormant IP back to life.
So what can we learn from Hollywood’s attempts to make a mint on name recognition and nostalgia? Here are our takeaways.
Also Read: 2019 Movie Franchise Tracker: Which Blockbusters Are Getting Sequels? (Photos)
1. Endings Can Be Big…If They’re Earned
When coming up with big tentpole films, studios often look for a hook to keep audiences interested in a sequel. But the promise of an ending can be just as much of a hook as well.
“Avengers: Endgame” was clear proof of this. The culmination of a decade of Marvel Cinematic Universe movies, “Endgame” was the biggest movie in box office history and a global event unlike any ever seen in the history of film. Even though the MCU goes on, “Endgame” promised a final bow for several of the characters that stood at its center for the last decade — and delivered a kind of closure for fans.
But it wasn’t just Tony Stark whose final chapter was written. The promise of an ending was used in the marketing for other films like “How to Train Your Dragon: The Hidden World,” an animated saga that might not match the cultural footprint of “Toy Story” but certainly was deeply important for millions of young moviegoers who grew up over the course of this decade. While the February threequel didn’t make as much money as “How to Train Your Dragon 2,” which came out in summer 2014, it still managed to gross over a half-billion worldwide.
Also Read: Why 'How to Train Your Dragon' Franchise Was 'Uniquely Suited' to Dreamscape VR Experience
2. Not Every Franchise Can Wait Five Years for a Sequel
But not every story can wait five years for a new chapter like “How to Train Your Dragon” did. Some sequels to films released in 2014 saw their grosses drop precipitously compared to their previous installments. Warner Bros. was a particular victim of this as “The Lego Movie 2” and “Godzilla: King of the Monsters” fell 45% and 59% compared to their respective original releases.
“The Lego Movie” became a cult hit and 2014’s “Godzilla” was seen as the best American take on the kaiju franchise. But both films had lost much of their novelty by the time their sequels arrived. Warner had released two “Lego Movie” spinoffs based on Batman and Ninjago, making “Lego Movie 2” in reality the fourth installment of the franchise. In addition, the franchise’s style of humor from creators Phil Lord and Chris Miller has become extremely popular and used in kids titles like “Spider-Man: Into the Spider-Verse” and “Teen Titans GO to the Movies,” causing the sequel to lose another bit of its uniqueness.
A similar effect might have harmed “Godzilla,” as creature features like the two “Jurassic World” films, “Rampage” and “Kong: Skull Island” have given audiences plenty of chances to see giant beasts smash things on the big screen; a battle between Godzilla and Ghidorah in “King of the Monsters” may not have been so appetizing for anyone but hardcore fans. Sometimes it’s not just the most recognizable elements of a franchise film that can lose their luster.
3. Not Everything Needs to Hit the Jackpot to Be a Hit
In an age where Disney is releasing a film that grosses $1 billion every other month, it’s important to remember that a film doesn’t necessarily have to hit that figure in order to be a hit (especially if the production cost is well below a Marvel extravaganza’s). Warner’s $100 million superhero film “Shazam!,” for example, was able to turn enough of a profit with $364.6 million worldwide to secure a sequel.
Universal was never going to be able to make “Hobbs & Shaw” into as big a hit as the billion-dollar “Fast & Furious” films, but was able to raise awareness of the spinoff’s connection to “F&F” enough to earn $759 million worldwide. And Lionsgate, after a 2018 where nothing seemed to work, earned its first $100 million-plus domestic hit in over a year with “John Wick: Chapter 3 — Parabellum” — the rare threequel that earned significantly more than both its predecessors.
Also Read: 'Star Wars: The Rise of Skywalker' Jolts Box Office With $175 Million Opening
4. Nostalgia Has Its Limits
Remakes of Disney Renaissance films like “The Lion King” and “Aladdin” have shown that nostalgia can be a potent force with moviegoers, but reviving a familiar title isn’t always going to be enough. A lesson on the limits of nostalgia came hard in early November when “Terminator: Dark Fate,” “Doctor Sleep” and “Charlie’s Angels” all bombed at the box office.
All three films were trying to capitalize on titles that first entered pop culture in the ’70s and ’80s: “The Terminator,” “The Shining,” and the original “Charlie’s Angels” TV series. But while all three have their devoted fanbases, revivals still need general interest to find success. An entire generation has come of age without “Charlie’s Angels” or “The Shining” in their lives, and the “Terminator” series hasn’t had a widely beloved entry since 1991. If the 18-25 demographic doesn’t have any interest, your franchise won’t last long.
Also Read: 5 Reasons 'Charlie's Angels' Tanked at the Box Office - And Why Elizabeth Banks Isn't Fazed
5. Always Have a Backup Tentpole
A major reason why 2018 was such a massive year is because many studios unleashed some of their best tentpoles: Disney had “Avengers,” Universal had “Jurassic World,” and Paramount had “Mission: Impossible.”
But aside from Disney, studios can’t rely on a single franchise to provide a reliable source of money year in and year out. On years where those top titles aren’t on the slate, there needs to be a backup plan. With no “Jurassic” or mainline “F&F” on the slate, Universal has been able to keep going with “Hobbs & Shaw,” “Secret Life of Pets 2” and some non-franchise films like “Us.” Warner Bros. pushed “Wonder Woman 1984” to next year but still found success with “Joker” and “It: Chapter Two.”
Paramount, on the other hand, has seen its rebound 2018 collapse into a disappointing 2019 with no films grossing over $100 million domestically. The studio should have a better 2020 with sequels to “A Quiet Place” and “Top Gun” coming, but Tom Cruise won’t be able to bail the studio out forever. We will see in the coming year which studios have enough depth in their tentpole charts to keep box office numbers consistent.
There have been plenty of box office hits in 2019 from "Avengers: Endgame" to "Joker" to "Us." But as always, there are films that end up taking a dive once they hit theaters. Some have been failed attempts to revive flailing franchises. Others are poorly reviewed films that moviegoers barely notice on the cinema marquee. Either way, they've made this list.
"Replicas" $9.2 million grossed ($30 million budget) -- Keanu Reeves has had a great 2019. "John Wick: Chapter 3" was a hit, a viral video of his E3 appearance became a meme, and sequels to "Bill & Ted" and "The Matrix" are in his future. But back in January, he starred in this critically panned sci-fi tale of a neuroscientist who defies the law and scientific ethics to create clones of his dead family.
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"The Kid Who Would Be King" $32 million ($60 million budget) -- Unlike other films on this list, critics were pleasantly surprised by this family film about a British schoolboy who discovers that he is the reincarnation of King Arthur. But it fell victim to early-year box office doldrums as audiences ignored the critics' praises, turning "The Kid Who Would Be King" into one of several busts for 20th Century Fox in the final months before the Disney merger.
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"Serenity" $14.3 million ($25 million budget) -- Both critics and audiences panned this thriller starring Anne Hathaway as a woman and her boat captain ex-husband (Matthew McConaughey), whom she offers to pay $10 million to murder her abusive new husband. "Serenity" didn't even gross that amount in North America with just $8.5 million to go with a D+ from CinemaScore polls.
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"Miss Bala" $15 million ($15 million budget) -- In 2011, "Miss Bala" became a hit at Cannes and was Mexico's selection for the Foreign Language Oscar. But this remake starring Gina Rodriguez was far less fortunate, barely making back its production budget.
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"Captive State" $8.7 million ($25 million budget) -- It's an interesting concept: a sci-fi allegory for U.S. imperialism, as an alien race conquers Earth and turns it into a vassal state. But between middling reviews and the pop culture dominance of "Captain Marvel," "Captive State" never went anywhere.
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"The Beach Bum" $4.4 million ($5 million budget) -- Another swing and a miss for Matthew McConaughey, though he did get praise from critics for this Harmony Korine stoner comedy that also stars Snoop Dogg, Zac Efron, Jonah Hill, of all people, and Jimmy Buffett.
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"Hellboy" $44.6 million ($50 million budget) -- And now we get to the summer blockbuster bombs, starting with Lionsgate's failed attempt to revive "Hellboy" with David Harbour instead of Ron Perlman and loads of gore instead of Guillermo del Toro's guiding hand. The result was one of the most panned films of the year that quickly met its box office demise once "Avengers: Endgame" hit theaters two weeks after its release.
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"Men in Black: International" $253 million ($110 million budget) -- Sony may have taken a bit of a loss on this "MIB" spinoff, but any write-downs were quickly erased by the success of "Spider-Man: Far From Home" later in the summer. But this was a bust because it was a failed attempt to turn "MIB" into another "Jurassic World," replacing original cast members with hot new talent. While Chris Hemsworth and Tessa Thompson were lauded for a good attempt, critics and audiences agreed that there's no replacing Will Smith and Tommy Lee Jones.
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"Dark Phoenix" $252 million ($200 million budget) -- 19 years of "X-Men" films at Fox ended with the biggest thud possible, as Simon Kinberg's panned take on Jean Grey's villainous turn became the most high-profile bomb of the summer. Simon Kinberg blamed himself for the bomb, which was identified as the main reason why Fox reported a $170 million operational loss in its first financial quarter under Disney ownership.
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"The Kitchen" $15 million ($38 million budget) -- Warner Bros. is enjoying a great autumn thanks to "Joker" and "It: Chapter Two," but the end of summer was a rough period for them with two big bombs. The studio took a risk on Andrea Berloff's adaptation of "The Kitchen," a Vertigo graphic novel about mob wives who take over their dead husbands' business. But despite starring Melissa McCarthy, Elisabeth Moss and Tiffany Haddish, critics panned the film's script and audiences swiftly ignored it.
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"The Goldfinch" $9.6 million ($45 million budget) -- Then, a month later, WB had another bust with an adaptation of Donna Tartt's Pulitzer-winning novel "The Goldfinch." But critics at the film's Toronto premiere weren't impressed and, like "The Kitchen," audiences took one look at reviews and moved on.
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"Zeroville" $68,000 (Budget unknown) -- Over the past several years, James Franco has spent much of his time working on very obscure films that barely see any theatrical release. His latest, an adaptation of Steve Erickson's "Zeroville," became the biggest bomb of his career with just $8,900 grossed on its opening weekend. You read that right.
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"Terminator: Dark Fate" $102 million and counting ($185 million budget) -- After three maligned sequels, the "Terminator" franchise was expected to get a boost from the return of original star Linda Hamilton and creator James Cameron as producer. But despite better reviews, "Dark Fate" barely did better than its predecessor, "Terminator: Genisys," as casual audiences have lost interest in the series while hardcore fans were put off by the shocking fate of the once destined savior of humanity, John Connor.
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You might not even have been aware that some of these films existed
There have been plenty of box office hits in 2019 from "Avengers: Endgame" to "Joker" to "Us." But as always, there are films that end up taking a dive once they hit theaters. Some have been failed attempts to revive flailing franchises. Others are poorly reviewed films that moviegoers barely notice on the cinema marquee. Either way, they've made this list.
This week on Homestyle podcast: Learn how to smoke meat
© Leigh Guidry/The Advertiser This week's episode of the Homestyle podcast is all about grilling and smoking meat. Co-host Joe Cunningham often uses a charcoal chimney. Hear more at Apple Podcasts or your favorite podcast app.
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Episode 10: Hosting Parties
Leigh and Joe — and special guest 7-year-old Elizabeth Cunningham — are talking about the favorite parties they've thrown and how they made it happen. From princess and Elmo birthday parties over the year to wedding showers this spring, they've got plenty of experience to share.
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'Tis the season for giving, so Joe and Leigh are talking about how they give during the holiday season. Sometimes it's online or Black Friday shopping (yikes), or they have some ideas for how to make your own presents with a personal touch.
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Our official launch episode is all about Thanksgiving, so Leigh and Joe talk about what their families do for their favorite holiday.
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In the first episode, we discussed tailgating and gatherings to watch the big game — even if that's at home in the air conditioning. (This is Louisiana after all.)
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